I have been in a relationship with a woman for 2 years now. Our relationship started out great. We were both very affectionate to each other and love to find ways of telling each other how much we loved to be with the other. Now, recently within the last two months she has become less affectionate towards me and it seems that I am always initiating the affection and, when I do, she doesn't seem to be into it as much as she use to. We did just have a baby a month ago so I know that may affect her in some ways, but I was wondering when I should start worrying that she is becoming uninterested in our relationship or accept the way things are now and live with it. I must admit that I have been divorded for 4 years now and, due to the infidelity of my ex, I am still dealing with a few insecurities. We still say I love you to each other, but again, I seem to always initiate the words. Am I being paranoid, or is this normal for a relationship of 2 years to focus on other matters and put affections 2nd?